Dear Amy:
I have a big problem and I don’t know what to do. I have a friend and few months ago we had a really good relationship. I had the feeling that she is homosexual, but this is something that doesn’t matter to me because we respect each other.
We went to a party and I realize that my suspicious were true. I think that she felt uncomfortable as I notice her preferences, because since that happen she started ignoring me. I didn’t know what to do so I wrote a letter to her saying that I don’t have any problem with her, and I would support her no matter what and still see her as my friend and that I don’t want things to change between us because I like to spend time with her and that she is a person in which I trust.
The letter didn’t work as I thought and I think it offended her because now she is acting really weird with me, she avoids me and she never answer the letter.
What can I do to change this situation?
Thanks,
Astrid
3 comentarios:
Dear Astrid:
Maybe your friend wasn´t ready for you to know, or confirm, her secret; probably she would prefer telling you in other circumstances.
You already told her your opinion, it´s probable that when she is ready will talk to you again.
Dear Astrid
You should talk to your friend, the letter was sent without any wrong intention but maybe she misunderstood you.
You need to talk with your friend face to face so you can work things out
Hello Astrid:
I have to ask in which circumstances have you realized your friend´s homosexuality. Perhaps, now you have to ask her what she feels because it´s likely she was into you (she was interested in you). Ashamed could she be as she´s avoiding you. Let time help her, she might be baffled
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